Friday, February 4

Recharge Your Marriage with The Flirtation Experiment

From popular Christian voices Lisa Jacobson and Phylicia Masonheimer, The Flirtation Experiment inspires you to strengthen your marriage with a fun, unexpected approach that leads to the depth, richness, and closeness you desire... 

Romance novels, Hallmark movies . . . the immense demand for romantic stories reveals a deep, unsatisfied longing that can be found in many marriages, but does it have to be that way? Is it possible that the best marriage has to offer can grow, rather than fade after you say “I do”? Lisa and Phylicia say, “Absolutely yes!” 

So what is the secret to a happy, thriving, loving marriage, where the fire of romance and close friendship do not fade? While The Flirtation Experiment includes the frisky side of marriage, it’s far more than a good romp. By degrees, each chapter takes you to a deeper place, covering themes every beautiful marriage has in common, such as covenant, healing, and hope. 

After reading, wives will:

  • be filled with hope and encouragement for how they can make a powerful, positive change in their marriages,
  • become empowered to pursue their husbands romantically,
  • understand the Bible invites women to be proactive in their marriages,
  • be motivated to consistently love in creative ways, and
  • forge closeness and intimacy in their marriages. 


“Intentional flirting keeps a positive lightness in the atmosphere and improves our overall communication,” says Jacobson. “My light flirtations bring us closer in meaningful ways and lead to connection on a deeper level. It helps us discover true romance waiting for us in everyday situations.” 

Perfect for the wife who wants romance, passion, and the closeness that only comes from a deep heart connection but isn’t sure where to start, The Flirtation Experiment is a candid, real-life record of two Christian women from different seasons of life who discovered they could make a significant impact on their marriage relationships, one small flirtatious experiment at a time.

Check out The Flirtation Experiment + Read two free chapters here!

Readers can go deeper by using The Flirtation Experiment Workbook.


Do you remember the spark and mystery you shared when you and your husband were still dating? That kind of exciting, loving interaction and intimacy doesn't have to end with marriage, but it does for so many couples.

So what is the secret to a happy, thriving marriage, where the fire of romance and close friendship doesn't fade? The answer may be different for different couples, but this workbook will validate every woman in any stage of their marriage journey who wants more than to read about what worked for someone else...

The Flirtation Experiment Workbook allows you to conduct your own experiments and makes space for you to take action (and notes!) on your marriage journey's romance, passion, and heart-connection.

Each of its six sessions includes:

  • Five separate experiments (for each session) that run in the same order as the book.
  • Space for notetaking and brainstorming your own flirtatious ideas.
  • Wrap-up questions that will help you reflect on how your experiment went and how you might improve it.


Also includes a Husband Appendix, which allows husbands to take an active part.

Sessions include:

  1. Love Rejoices
  2. Love Protects
  3. Love Trusts
  4. Love Hopes
  5. Love Perseveres
  6. Love Never Fails


It's difficult to believe that hubby and I are approaching our twentieth anniversary this year...some days it feels like two, and others it feels like a hundred.  (If you've been married a while, don't deny it; you know what I'm talking about....)  We have been through so very many ups and downs over the past two decades, and there were months I was pretty sure our marriage would not survive.  It's a broken road, and we continue to walk it together.

Have you heard the phrase 'Seven year itch; Twenty year ditch?'  As a counselor, this was something I saw frequently in my students' lives (more the latter, as they were teens), and one of the biggest causes of this is that the 'spark' dies if you don't keep fanning the embers occasionally.  This book addresses that very thing.  Whether you're in the honeymoon phase still, or wondering how you ever saw something in this man in front of you...whether you are in the perfect phase, or entering the empty nest years...there is something for you in these pages.

There are a lot of Biblical references, which is a plus for some folks and a minus for others.  I'd say that if you find yourself in that second column, ask yourself why.  It could be as simple as you practice a religion other than Christianity (in which case, feel free to gloss right by the scripture), or it could be that you're going through some personal spiritual struggles.  Either way, you can bypass those parts if that's the only thing keeping you from gaining the rest of the insights provided by these ladies.  It's packed with tips and ideas to help you walk your path together, but is still a quick and light read.

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